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 7 Tips On the Laws of Attraction

Presented by: Attraction Boutique

Tip 1:
The Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe. It states that "like attracts like". Focus on what you do want - not what you don't want. If you can eliminate "don't want" from your vocabulary, your life will get a lot easier. Whenever you catch yourself talking about what you don't want, say: "Cancel! Cancel! Cancel! And then state what you do want.

Question:
I "get" the Law of Attraction and I love it! However, I've noticed that in the midst of a crisis (break-up, lay-off, health issues, etc.) it can be brutally difficult to stay in attracting energy. How do you recommend applying the Laws of Attraction when faced with negative life circumstances?
Love,
Jane

Answer:
Jane – What you're experiencing is not uncommon. A lot of times individuals pressure themselves, thinking they must always be in a high vibration.

When a bad mood, crisis or awful job hits, it's easy to fall down the rabbit hole. Back in the day, I used to get mad at myself when I couldn't stay at a high vibration, because I felt that I "should" (note: whenever you feel like you "should" do something, you're off track – choose what is perfect for you!). Feeling those "should's" is definitely not productive and only ensures that you attract more of the same.

Here are a few of my suggestions and an example for pulling yourself out of a mood and back into a higher vibration:
▪ Read Jerry & Esther Hick's Ask and It Is Given.  Purchase it HERE

They discuss what's called the "vibrational scale of well being". The scale is described as emotional set points, similar to a fuel tank. Emotions can range from depression to joy. It's practically impossible to go from a negative emotion to bliss. So, they recommend slowly moving up the scale by choosing another thought.

Here's an example from my own experience of how to do this:
I woke up on Saturday with the worst PMS of my life. My first reaction was "I don't want to feel this way!"  I followed the advice I give my clients daily when faced with negative thoughts, I said: "Cancel! Cancel! Cancel!"

Then, I asked myself: What do I want?
"I want to feel good".

Rather than resisting my emotions I decided I would choose to feel that way for 20 minutes and honor it. Then, I focused on what I could do to at least get to another, better feeling emotion on the scale. I decided to go for a walk to change my scenery. I began to focus on what I was grateful for. Then I treated myself to a cup of coffee. By the time I got back, rather than resisting my emotions I had moved through them.
The bottom line is this: we are all human and we will have down days. Just remember, if you are willing to look and explore there is always a gift or insight on the other side.

Try some of my favorite mood and energy lifting suggestions:
▪ Listen to a fun and happy song (right now, I'm loving "Put Your Records On" by Corinne Bailey Rae)
▪ Reach out to a friend – go have coffee & find out what's happening in her world
▪ Dance. It's an amazing release!
And, when all else fails there's always - chocolate and shopping!
Happy Attracting!
Brooke

Tip 2

The Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe. It states that "like attracts like". Focus on what you do want - not what you don't want. If you can eliminate "don't want" from your vocabulary, your life will get a lot easier. Whenever you catch yourself talking about what you don't want, say: "Cancel! Cancel! Cancel! And then state what you do want.

Question:
How does Reiki relate to the law of attraction?
-Paula

Answer:
Reiki is a great way to achieve balance, relax and raise your vibration.
My dear friend Heather Gray, Reiki Master and my partner on the One Wish Workshops says this about Reiki and manifestation:

"Reiki heals by increasing vibration."
Reiki healing energy works on three levels:
▪ Mental
▪ Spiritual
▪ Physical

When our energy is aligned and feeling good, we are at the point of attraction. We're in the flow to attract what we want into our lives.
Reiki is a wonderful tool to use in conjunction with the Law of Attraction, since it raises your vibration to a good feeling mood. And our high vibration will allow us to attract whatever we desire for our life.
Happy Attracting!
Brooke

Tip 3
The Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe. It states that "like attracts like". In other words, your thoughts create your destiny. Focus on what you do want - not what you don't want. If you can eliminate "don't want" from your vocabulary, your life will get a lot easier. Whenever you catch yourself talking about what you don't want, say: "Cancel! Cancel! Cancel! And then state what you do want.

Question:
Is there a time limit for the Law of Attraction to begin working? At what point would you stop focusing on a manifestation, especially if you are focused on something grandiose? --Patty

Answer:
The keys to the Law of Attraction are:
▪ State what you want
▪ Know why you want it
▪ Allow it to happen

Oftentimes, though, we mis-create what we want.
For example, I can say I want a house in the Hamptons. I know why I want it, but then I might say:
▪ "I can't afford it"
▪ "How come it hasn't happened yet?" 
▪ "This just doesn't work!"

Sometimes it will take the universe a little while to get our desire to us – especially when it's a significant request.

When I first started working with the Law of Attraction, I wanted to control how it was going to look. I learned that trust is essential. Now, when I write an intention or have a client write one, we always add, "This or something better is on its way."

Recently, Jennifer Hudson won the Oscar. It was her initial intention to win American Idol. In a recent interview with Barbara Walters, she said she knew something better was on the horizon. That's the kind of trust I'm talking about – trusting that our good is on its way. We can order a cheesecake and get it right away. But if we order the soufflé, it might take a little longer.

Here are some things we can do while allowing our manifestations to come to us:
▪ Have fun!
▪ Keep good feeling vibrations high. Ask: Do I feel good? OR Do I feel bad?
▪ Remember, obstacles are simply a test to our commitment.
▪ Trust that whatever happens is for the highest good.
▪ Practice gratitude – daily.
▪ Detach from the outcome and know that all that we desire is on its way!
Happy Attracting!
Brooke

Tip 4

The Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe. It states that "like attracts like". In other words, your thoughts create your destiny. The movie, The Secret illustrates the Law of Attraction. Check it out at: http://www.thesecret.tv/. Focus on what you want - not what you don't want. If you can eliminate "don't want" from your vocabulary, your life will get a lot easier. Whenever you catch yourself talking about what you don't want, say: "Cancel! Cancel! Cancel! And then state what you do want.

Question
Sometimes I get into a negative spiral, where I cannot stop negative thoughts. Is there anything I can do that will allow me to release this negativity?
--Hillary

Answer
This is a great question, as no one is completely void of negative thoughts. Fortunately, there's a perfect exercise that will help you dissolve negativity and bring yourself back to a higher vibration.
Try this polarity exercise when in a negative frame of mind – it helps balance out resistance.
*Write out your negative thoughts, as they come to you. 
*Circle all of the negatively charged words.
*Take out another piece of paper, fold it in half.
*Write all of the negative words on one side.
*On the other side, flip each negative word and write its opposite – a positive word. Example: angry = joyous or bad = good
*When you're finished, say: "Thank you universe for healing these imbalances within me and bringing me back to grace."
Happy Attracting!
Brooke

Tip 5

The Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe. It states that "like attracts like". In other words, your thoughts create your destiny. Focus on what you want - not what you don't want. If you can eliminate "don't want" from your vocabulary, your life will get a lot easier. Whenever you catch yourself talking about what you don't want, say: "Cancel! Cancel! Cancel! And then state what you do want.

Question
I've set my intentions and I'm ready to manifest. But, I'm having trouble staying in a place that says, "I can do this!" Instead, I'm getting stuck and I'm feeling overwhelmed, like I can't manifest what I want. Help!
--Cynthia

Answer
Often when we declare something immediately, a test to our commitment can occur. It's a block. It can either occur as a mental block – what you're describing as the voice that says "I can't". Or it can occur as an external block. Simply acknowledge it, instead of resisting. Then, it can pass. On the other side, you'll discover an incredible insight or breakthrough.
In the moment it can seem uncomfortable. Know that it means you are growing. Your ego wants you to stay safe. Feed that voice a lollypop and say, "Thanks for sharing".

Then, write a memo to the universe. I learned this from a teacher of mine, Elyse Hope Killoran (http://www.playmoneygame.com/). It's a great way to release all the googly-gak in your mind. It frees up space to get back to attracting exactly what you want!

Here's how it works:
*Take out a piece of paper and write:

To: The Universe
From: Me
Regarding: My Life

*Write all the things you are grateful for.
*Write all the things you want the universe to handle.

Examples: Keep my vibration high, release fear, release doubt, clear up an argument with ____

*Write all that you want to attract.

By writing a memo to the universe, you're asking the universe to handle it. After you write the memo, put it in a drawer and really let it go. In a few weeks you can revisit the memo and see what was handled and what wasn't. If there are still blocks, you can write a new one.
If you find a block that is too deep, you may want to seek counseling or a healer who can help you through the rough patches.
Happy Attracting!
Brooke

Lifestyle Tip #6

The Law of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe. It states that "like attracts like". In other words, your thoughts create your destiny. Focus on what you want - not what you don't want. If you can eliminate "don't want" from your vocabulary, your life will get a lot easier. Whenever you catch yourself talking about what you don't want, say: "Cancel! Cancel! Cancel! And then state what you do want.

Question
How can I let go of my negative thoughts surrounding money?
-Allison
Answer
You can clean out the cobwebs of negative belief systems by completing the exercise below.
It's based on my experience at the Millionaire Mind Intensive.
I highly encourage you to attend a Millionaire Mind Intensive; it is MAD fun to take with a loved one. My husband, Lee, and I gained a tremendous amount of insights and created a management system that can definitely prevent financial negativity.
If you are not able to attend a Millionaire Mind Intensive weekend, you can purchase the CD's at: http://www.raiseyourmoneyblueprint.com/
Read these statements out loud, with excitement and with your hand on your heart. If you can convince your significant other to do this also, it's even better.
T.Harv Ecker statements:
*I am an excellent money manager.
*I always pay myself first.
*I put money into my financial freedom jar everyday.
*My money works hard for me and makes me more and more money.
*I earn enough passive income to pay for my desired lifestyle.
*I am financially free.
*I work because I choose to, not because I have to.
*My part-time business is managing and investing my money and creating passive income streams.
*I create my life.
*I create the exact amount of my financial success.
*I play the money game to win. My intention is to create wealth and abundance.
*I admire and model rich and successful people.
*I believe money is important, money is freedom and money makes life more enjoyable.
*I get rich doing what I love.
*I deserve to be rich because I add value to other people's lives.
*I am a generous giver and an excellent receiver. (I LOVE this one!)
*I am truly grateful for all the money I have now.
*Lucrative opportunities always come my way.
*My capacity to earn and grow money expands day by day.
(You want more of these check out the bottom. I spoke to Chellie at chellie.com who has 365 of these juicy statements in her book "Wealthy Spirit". Read these fabulous 50 below daily and you will be soaring for days. The Ladies Who Launch Los Angeles Event got to experience her.
Happy Attracting!
Brooke
 
 THE FABULOUS FIFTY ABUNDANCE AFFIRMATIONS

Presented by Attraction Boutique and Chellie Campbell

Practiced daily, these prosperity affirmations will begin to change your mind and then your experience with money.  These are some of my own personal favorites collected over the years. Revise them to suit yourself, but remember to keep them positive and in the present tense!

1.   People love to give me money! 
2.   Something wonderful is happening to me today--I can feel it! 
3.   All my affirmations happen in the perfect way for the highest good of all concerned.
4.   I am now earning a great big income doing what makes me happy.
5.   All my bills are paid up and out and I still have all this money.
6.   My affirmations work for me, whether I believe they will or not.
7.   A lot more money is coming to me today--and I deserve it!
8.     Money and love are attracted to me.  They flow to me from all directions in larger and larger amounts.
9.   I am successful, generous and happy and I've become wealthy from them all.
10.  All my clients praise me and pay me!
11.  Money comes to me easily and effortlessly, waking and sleeping.
12.  I am now highly pleasing to myself in other people's presence. 
13.  I spend money wisely and happily, blessing myself and others.
14.  I am a winner--I win often, and I win big!
15.  I am endlessly creative.  Money flows naturally from my creative endeavors.
16.  Every day in every way I am getting more and more prosperous, happy, joyous and free.
17.  I have positive cash flow right here, right now and always.
18.  I am a creative money generator.
19.  I am richly paid for the fun work I do.  The more fun I have the more money I make!
20.  I am successful, financially and spiritually, inside and out.
21.  I am a lucky person--I feel lucky today!
22.  Thank you, God, for the abundant gifts you provide for me every day.